As a blind man, I know I am usually attracted to the sound of a woman’s voice. It’s usually just the way they say a specific word or syllable, like “uh huh”. However I find this almost never happens with people in the “real world”. It only happens with voice actors, other performers, and people who are completely unavailable. I know that sighted people are usually attracted to one another by a person’s physical appearance, at least initially. For blind people, attraction is based on voice or touch, and touch is a big no-no most of the time. The one time I dated a woman who was blind, we were touching each other toward the end of our first date, which was quite an eye-opener, figuratively speaking. Online dating has become so visual that I’ve all but abandoned it. I have felt starved for arousal as someone who lives on my own because of this. Have any other blind people found they rarely feel attraction in the real world?
My original post contains a link. However, you’re posting from Mastodon instead of getting a Lemmy account, so you can’t see it. Nothing I can do about that; sorry. Consider joining Lemmy so you can actually access all the features of the platform.
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I think he’s using tweesecake; I have no idea what that does with Markdown formatting on Mastodon.
@fastfinge So, I do have an account on that platform but because there’s no client that’ll make it easier for me to use, that creates problems for me.
The desktop website works fine, though.