This year my wife and I have 2 under 2. We’re both pretty fried right now, and other than getting together a bit in the afternoon with some family I don’t think we’ll be doing much of anything. That’s plenty ok with me, but I still like living vicariously through other dad’s weekend plans!
Leaving the day open for wife-and-kid-planned shenanigans sounds like a really good thing to do… I’m gonna have to remember this over the next few years