• @NightAuthor
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    61 year ago

    Me, looking for a job with a wife that makes enough to live comfortably enough

    • @[email protected]
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      21 year ago

      Oh, that means you can get a dumb job that you just kinda enjoy. Like at a hobby shop, becoming a stripper, or making coffee.

      I’m p jealous of your situation tbh, but also get how it has its own unique stress which isn’t ‘better’ than anyone else’s.

      • @NightAuthor
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        31 year ago

        Well, what stinks is that I have a degree in software engineering, and quite like it. Neurotypicals in my situation would work on personal projects and that’d help them eventually get a job… but I really need the structure of a job to get work done. Otherwise, I just end up writing little scripts for random stuff, things I can complete in a few hours…. But they’re not resume worthy projects.

        I’m working on social anxiety rn, but hopefully I can get networking and then maybe do like you said, I can find some cool people that can get me in at a workplace that may be enjoyable even if not the best paying.

        • @[email protected]
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          21 year ago

          Ah.

          What about volunteering for an NPO? There are thousands that need help building systems that don’t have the ability to hire engineers. I’ve known a handful of folks that built their resumes like that and were able to pretty quickly get hired somewhere.

          • @NightAuthor
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            21 year ago

            There’s a dev volunteer group that finds NPO projects to help with, Ive lurked in a couple of meetings. Seems promising, just gotta deal with the social anxiety… and actually get involved.

            • @[email protected]
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              21 year ago

              Have you tried just being not socially anxious? 😅

              I kid. I deal with it too and know how hard it is to overcome. Best of luck to you!