Anyone have any advice for navigating coming out as bisexual recently. I just moved states so I haven’t been able to get a good grasp on the social scene yet, is there maybe a way of thinking about dating preferences without actually dating?
I’ve thought about going to a gay bar but I’ve never been to any and I really don’t know what to do.
Going out… I’m a home body and have dealt with a lot of psychological crap over the years. Right now I’m in a good spot and need to make up for lost time socially, I have virtually no experience
To me it sounds like you’re saying this:
Hey Lemmy, I want to learn how to ride a bicycle but I don’t actually want to ride a bicycle as part of learning how to ride one. I also don’t want to make any mistakes learning how to ride a bicycle.
If someone came up to you and said that, would you think that’s reasonable?
Exactly, it’s paradoxical and frustrating because I’m trying to do something that doesn’t make any sense