• queermunist she/her
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    41 year ago

    The doctor replied with a message addressed to a “gentleman”, claiming that he treated “real women”.

    He justified himself by saying that he had “no skills to treat men, even if they have shaved their beards and come to tell my secretary that they have become women”.

    what the fuck

    Dr Acharian admits he lashed out with the online comments, but says his reasoning for not seeing the patient is still justified, and highlights an underlying problem for medical professionals.

    “I reacted spontaneously, out of anger, and I felt I’d been unfairly attacked. I reacted with very clumsy words that may have offended. I’m well aware of that, I’ve expressed my regrets on several occasions,” said Acharian.

    good ol’ trans panic defense 🙄

    • @Edgelord_Of_Tomorrow
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      291 year ago

      I don’t know enough to say if it’s valid for a gynecologist to not treat a trans person, but it’s definitely not valid to be an absolute cunt about it. If you have a rational reason not to help them, cool, but you can explain that calmly and try to refer them to a place that can.

        • @[email protected]
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          51 year ago

          He offered to, but the person ran off and raised a stink online instead of following the rational recommendation. Ahhhh, the 2020s. Good ol’ keyboard warriors and their cancel culture.

          • Bonehead
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            21 year ago

            The person ran off and raised a stink online because the doctor was a being a fucking dick. If he just politely refused and referred them to another doctor, there would be no story.

            • Kalash
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              -11 year ago

              If he just politely refused and referred them to another doctor, there would be no story.

              But that’s literally what happened. Her response to that was calling the doctor a transphobe and insulting his staff. She was being a dick first.

              Did you even bother to read the article?

              • Bonehead
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                11 year ago

                I did read the article. Calling her a man is being a dick. Asking for services while being trans is not being a dick.

                • Kalash
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                  21 year ago

                  There is no indication in the article that he called her a man before she flew of the handle.

              • queermunist she/her
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                There is never an excuse to be transphobic. The story doesn’t get better for him if she was belligerent first. Let’s keep in mind how upsetting this situation is for her, and then instead of de-escalating he makes it worse.

                • Kalash
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                  21 year ago

                  I disagree. That’s a much better story for him. Not even sure if he’s transphobic or just not trained in PC language. If he meant “I only treat biological women”, he’d be correct.

                  She was upset and kind of having a bad fucking day, and then instead of de-escalating he makes it worse.

                  And maybe he was also having a bad day, probably because of her. Why is this on him in the first place?

                  • queermunist she/her
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                    Calling a trans woman a man is transphobic, and it’s clearly not a matter of training because he knew not to do that before she was rude. He was angry at her for being annoying and wanted to hurt her.

                    Why is this on him in the first place?

                    1. He’s supposed to be the professional.

                    2. There’s never an excuse to be transphobic. Being rude is a mistake. That wasn’t a mistake.

        • @Fosheze
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          31 year ago

          He worked on so many that he eventually became one. That sounds like a One Punch Man villan origin.