This may seem childish but I’ve had a crush on someone for a quite a long time (around a decade). I know I need to move on but been unsuccessful so far.
We haven’t seen each other for a while. He’s traveling to my city in a few weeks, and, due to some scheduling conflicts, he’s staying with me for a few days.
Thing is, I never know how to be around the dude. He’s already in a committed relationship with his boyfriend, which makes me kinda jealous TBH. Not sure how I’m gonna deal when he’s here physically in a few weeks.
Any advice on how to be around someone you never get over completely?
If you have had a “crush” on someone for a decade and have not been able to move on you need to cut them out forever. It’s unhealthy behavior and likely holding you back. Cut the cord, move on.