I called some people I’m seeing partners, but got scolded by a friend because I guess partner means a relationship that’s more “serious”. My friend suggested calling them lovers.
I’m emotionally involved with all my people and I care about them. I just get an ick from labels and relationship ladders (abusive family).
I’m looking for a word that’s unassuming, but clearly says “I’m not single” so I can easily be honest with monogamous people.
Any suggestions? Lover sounds a little too much like cheating.
I’ve used “date” for people I’m seeing but we haven’t had an explicit “what is the nature of our relationship?” conversation.
“I’ll bring my date Alex tomorrow”
“I’m dating two people, Alex and Ryan”
It can be a little clumsy in some cases but it has been helpful.