• @[email protected]
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    21 year ago

    this doesn’t mean much tho, considering people aren’t ever born ‘villains’. they all are created by something traumatic.

    so sure, empathize all you want, but it doesn’t help anyone. simply enables it.

    • @IanSomnia
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      Empathy doesn’t have to mean letting them do whatever they want. It’s the only path to reforming them. I’ve worked with a young kid with no dad in the process of going down this pipeline. You have to challenge them on what they think they’ve learned about being a man, but if you don’t try to understand how they feel they will just shut you out. Ultimately you can’t make someone believe something. So you either give up and label them a lost cause, or you actually try to reach them and convince them person to person.

    • @[email protected]
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      21 year ago

      I mainly feel bad with the young men who are not yet captured but are down that path. I’d like to think it couldn’t have happened to me but I had the luxery of going through that time of my life when that stuff wasn’t really around.

      Though actually I had 4chan at that time and I turned out mostly well adjusted so they’re not completely blame-free.

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        51 year ago

        people seem to think if you’re not in support of them or their position, then you haven’t experienced the same things and been on the same path. I saw where I was going and specifically changed it.

        I’m still a depressed, alone, piece of shit, but I’m not a bigoted, fascist piece of shit.

    • PorkRollWobbly
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      11 year ago

      I think it does help in that we can approach our ridicule of them from a constructive manner.

      “Your role models are taking advantage of you.”

      “At least I don’t fail to hide my insecurities behind toxic masculinity.”

      “You’re alone because you choose to be alone.”