I want to be respectful but if they say they don’t care what pronouns I use for them, that feels like it puts the decision on me to choose what to call them and I guess I would probably default to “they” because choosing a gender for them feels weird… am I wrong?

  • @soupspoon
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    71 year ago

    This obsession with trying to be a better friend/neighbor/coworker is what’s really wrong with the world today!