Fuck that’s rough. Since I’m still new at this whole actively choosing not to drink thing, I haven’t been brave enough to try anywhere that serves alcohol. I know it’ll happen eventually, I can’t avoid them forever, so I’m really liking the idea of having a “back pocket drink” where you don’t even tempt yourself by looking over a cocktail menu.Thats a great idea, and you’re the second person I’ve seen espousing that advice.

Seltzer and lime is hella refreshing, looks like a bar drink, and won’t draw unwanted attention. You got this! Think about how much more value you’re going to get out of this mentoring session when you’re clear headed and in control. It’s pretty exciting! 🙌