Is this based on instance performance accepting the subscription, or is it a generalize Lenny bug where it doesn’t send it properly?
Is this based on instance performance accepting the subscription, or is it a generalize Lenny bug where it doesn’t send it properly?
It appears that maybe there is no retry logic: https://github.com/LemmyNet/lemmy/issues/3203
You should generally click the pending button to cancel the subscription request and then try again, possibly after waiting “a while” for the instance to have a moment where it feels less existential dread.