It’s a sunny day, we’re outside, good mood, drinking a coffee. I try to strike a conversation, my gf says its too early for philosophical discussions. I tell her we can instead talk about whatever she feels like. She says she doesn’t want to talk about anything. We weirdly sit in silence for a while. I tell her it’s weird to me, we argue. Is this normal?

  • @OGKludge
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    1891 year ago

    Sitting in comfortable silence is completely normal. Some people need to practice not filling every moment with conversation.

    • @TenshiOP
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      121 year ago

      I guess you’re right…

      • Peafield
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        341 year ago

        I struggled with this for a long time. I grew up in a house where silence meant something was wrong. My partner helped me understand that’s not the case. Sometimes it’s nice just to be together and do nothing.