How large were your physical changes and how large, if any, were the social ones? Related to anything you feel comfortable sharing, e.g. socializing/meeting new people, work, dating etc.

  • mich
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    51 year ago

    I think the difference is that 1:1 I’m pretty okay — it’s just when I’m trying to engage with a group that I start to feel uncomfortable.

    Also a gay dude if that changes the equation? Especially at concerts, sometimes all it takes to start something is the right kind of eye contact.

    • @devnull
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      31 year ago

      Oh, interesting! I’d wager the other side being male probably helps a lot. I’d recently talked to some women about something similar, and only one in ten had ever hit on or asked out someone directly.

      In any case, props to you!