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    411 year ago

    Talking about serious emotional issues or relationship problems with other men is pretty much uniformly crap. Most men are conditioned to not open up, or prefer immature viewpoints about all of that - or are just immature and crude and actually think various stupid and abusive things about women. Unfortunately some women actually prefer that.

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          -11 year ago

          I don’t understand how this makes the problem less one-sided.

          When an individual thinks abusive and stupid things about a group of people, it’s that’s individuals responsibility and issue.

          That doesn’t change just because you can maybe find a person who prefers you thinking stupid and abusive shit.

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        81 year ago

        Decent question really. I guess I was saying that while it’s been disappointing for me, it’s considered desirable and a good attitude by some people.

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          -11 year ago

          Perhaps you think too low of yourself? There will always be people who will prefer you to think this or that. Your parents, some dickhead politicians, your peers, … You don’t need everybody to like what you think.

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              41 year ago

              Maybe you have unrealistic expectations. Have you tried thinking even lower of yourself?