Hello, I(31M) guess I will begin from the start of this relationship. I became friends with Kay(24F) who is a is an ENM relationship with Jon(24M). Kay and I really hit it off and began being intimate. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago. While Kay and I were chilling Jon came home and was so upset he could barely contain himself. Kay’s demeanor changed as well. I just ignored it. The next time I was going to chill with Kay, she couldn’t because Jon needed to “apparently process something”. A week later I met up with Kay and she said she was overwhelmed and couldn’t hang out as often. I just took it at face value. I haven’t seen her since. She continues to text me, and insists she wants to see me. I am definitely confused, but should I be worried?

  • @ladiciusEnglish
    4•9 months ago

    J and K have or had a thing going? What is enm?

    • @SatansInteriorDsgnrEnglish
      7•9 months ago

      I think ENM stands for ethical non-monogamy. So a consensual open relationship.

      • @ladiciusEnglish
        5•9 months ago

        Looks like J is not so consensual.

        • @PlantJamEnglish
          2•9 months ago

          Or he is open to seeing other people himself, but not really to his partner seeing other people.

    • @GamaxrayOPEnglish
      2•9 months ago

      Yes, they’re in an open, committed relationship. That’s basically what ENM is. But there’s supposed to be communication.