• @Fosheze
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    151 year ago

    Exactly. If you trust her then just ask her. If you don’t trust her then she’s not much of a friend. If your friendship ends over that then she wasn’t much of a friend anyways. Just be sure to actually use your words and not just make a move because just making a move and getting rejected is a far more likely way to end a friendship.

    I’m about as socially competent as a 4chan user and even I managed to do that. I asked, got shot down, and everything was fine. I actually did that twice because she was not nearly blunt enough when she shot me down the first time and I am stupid. Even then everything was fine we’re still best friends several years later. We wingman for each other and other times we’re basically each others beards.