I prefer the terms hetero and cishets

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    29 months ago

    Insults are a conversational, social, and emotional weapon. Weapons have valid uses, for example in self defence.

    The use of many weapons has effects beyond the immediate violence they do. For example if you buy a gun from a cartel, you help them scale their business and sell more guns, leading to more gun violence. Likewise if you use slurs against marginalised communities, you reinforce the stigma and make the slur more potent, increasing the violence done later. You’re emboldening an infrastructure of violence in both cases.

    If you insult someone by calling them gay, you hurt them and you also hurt all gay people. But if you insult someone by calling them straight, you hurt them without hurting all straight people. Because you are not emboldening an extant infrastructure of violence.

    • @[email protected]
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      9 months ago

      Listen to your mental gymnastics. Just don’t insult anyone with their sexuality. Period. You could take it even farther and just say “don’t insult anyone” Seems pretty safe to me.

      • @HardlightCereal
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        09 months ago

        You could take it even farther and just say “don’t insult anyone” Seems pretty safe to me.

        That suggestion seems to be beyond your capabilities, since you began your comment with a sarcastic quip intended to insult my reasoning capabilities.

          • @HardlightCereal
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            29 months ago

            If you don’t want to be called a hypocrite, maybe you could stop being a hypocrite.

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              -29 months ago

              Buddy, I didn’t insult u. I just said listen to what ur saying and maybe make better choices. Now u literally are insulting me. I cannot with u. Goodbye lol.