Being the dominant partner is completely new for me, so I’m having to work at it. An example: the wife is in to CNC/rape play, and I’m a bit uncomfortable with it. But she wanted it. Cue me, sitting in the car outside of our house after work, trying to get it together well enough that I could do what she wanted. I made it happen, and we had fun, but I’m more of a soft dom.
Very hot stuff! I should try that next and really lean into my dominant nature with partners.
Being the dominant partner is completely new for me, so I’m having to work at it. An example: the wife is in to CNC/rape play, and I’m a bit uncomfortable with it. But she wanted it. Cue me, sitting in the car outside of our house after work, trying to get it together well enough that I could do what she wanted. I made it happen, and we had fun, but I’m more of a soft dom.
Being dominant takes practice, it would appear.
You sound like a good partner. I enjoy being a pleasure dom a lot. I’m not sure I could be “mean” even if it’s just acting.
Yeah the “being mean” is difficult and I don’t nornally do it. But if she wants me to drag her to bed I’m going to do it.