I have kids that I raise, they are great kids, I love them to death but if someone thinks kids aren’t a burden (of any sort) than they’re lying.

  • @ClockworkOtter
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    311 months ago

    I think burden is the wrong word. It implies an overall negative effect on life, like saying that playing a sport is a burden because you have to dedicate time and energy to it. Yes, my daughter does take up a huge part of my life and I’ve had to give up hobbies in order to make time for her.

    Responsibility and commitment, yes.

    Burden, no.

    • @Guest_User
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      311 months ago

      Webster has “duty, responsibility” listed as one of the definitions of burden. In that sense I think they are spot on. However, other people’s interpretation of the word can obviously vary

      • @ClockworkOtter
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        111 months ago

        If they’d only said that being a parent was a duty then it wouldn’t’ve been an unpopular opinion.