• Flying Squid
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    611 months ago

    Then don’t give them money directly. You can’t control how they spend it.

    • @[email protected]
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      311 months ago

      But if you just offer to buy them food, then people on the internet will complain at you denying them agency.

      • Flying Squid
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        111 months ago

        Can you provide an example of such complaining?

        • @Deuces
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          111 months ago

          There’s people in this thread saying a gift card isn’t a gift because it has stipulations on how it can be spent. They’re not being super aggressive about it, but still. If you want to find that comment chain check my last post.

          • Flying Squid
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            211 months ago

            Okay? That has absolutely nothing to do with buying someone food.

        • @[email protected]
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          011 months ago

          I mentioned it on a Discord server and got such responses as “Oh shut up. Let people have agency.” and “It’s just restricting more control from societies most vulnerable group.”

          • Flying Squid
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            211 months ago

            So a couple of people on a Discord serve said that and you extrapolate it to the entire internet?

            Let’s take an informal poll. Who here would criticize someone who offered to buy a homeless person a meal? Please speak up.