Going through a breakup with someone you love is like a punch in the gut. It feels like you’ve lost not just a partner, but your confidant and partner-in-crime. The worry creeps in — will you ever find someone like them again? Can you even be happy without them?
And then there’s that lingering feeling, right? What if you still love your ex and want them back? What if letting them go was a mistake? Is it even possible to mend things?
Well, here’s the scoop: winning back your ex is doable, but it’s no walk in the park. It calls for serious effort, a good dose of patience, and a brave heart. Plus, you’ve got to bring some wisdom, maturity, and a sprinkle of humility to the table. Your ex needs to see you’ve grown for the better, that you still care, and you’re ready to put in the work.
It’s better to work towards moving on, not trying to win someone back. There are some couples that do get back together and last, but they are the exception, not the rule. Moving on is healthier for both parties and if you are brought back together in the future so be it. But clinging to what’s past will do more damage than good usually. Again, there are exceptions, but clinging on to what’s gone usually just causes more pain in the long run.