when i do A for long enough and my overall net worth comes close enough to zero, i switch to B and am only sometimes capable of wrangling it in
it seems impossible to actually have a balance - those two philosophies make the most sense (trying hard vs nothing matters)
whyyyy. furthermore, are there any good ways to manage this that aren’t sort of self-flagellating or overly concerned with minutia (ie like the YNAB thing). no cult stuff pls
Have you ever been to therapy? Tbh it sounds more like something psychological that talking to someone about might help more than a trying to find some framework to deal with it.