• @Sanyanov
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    1 year ago

    As an allistic person, I don’t get any screams in my head when I make eye contact and may not understand what you’re referring to. Intense awkwardness?

    Prolomged eye contacts may make some allistic people feel awkward, but generally it’s a positive experience of nonverbal communication.

    • @SoleInvictus
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      51 year ago

      Are you saying making eye contact while talking makes you feel good?

      • @SneakyWeasel
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        41 year ago

        From another autistic person, it really varies from person to person. I despise staring intensely at strangers, but when it comes to my partner, I adore it. It probably has to do more with the level of trust than inherently not being able to look at someone in the eyes, but it might just be a me thing.

      • @Sanyanov
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        31 year ago

        Yes, for as long as it’s not an angry or otherwise negative look.

        • @SoleInvictus
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          41 year ago

          That is wild! I’m eye contact neutral - it doesn’t affect me at all, save with my partner where it IS enjoyable, so I had to learn not to stare people down. I never imagined people enjoyed it with other people! Thanks for blowing my mind.