• @surewhynotlem
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    1201 year ago

    I dated an ex-escort for a while and the relationship was just fine. I think you’re talking without any real experience.

    • @[email protected]
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      471 year ago

      A friend was an escort for a while and she’s one of the most loving and caring people I know. I would trust her with everything, especially relationship advice.

    • bioemerl
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      -711 year ago

      It can be fine. That doesn’t make them the “most qualified to teach sex ed”

      • @[email protected]
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        411 year ago

        So what would you pick? I’d rather take her than some religious nut that preaches/screeches abstinence.

        • bioemerl
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          -271 year ago

          Someone with education in anatomy and experience studying the body in a field that isn’t prone to abusive conditions.

          • @[email protected]
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            211 year ago

            If that’s available, good. What if that person was a prostitute to finance the education? I wouldn’t exclude them because they had one career step you might find immoral.

            • bioemerl
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              -321 year ago

              I would have them checked by a therapist to make sure there is no history of trauma or abuse that hasn’t been resolved which could then be passed onto the kids as hilariously unhealthy expectations or more specifically “rules for how things are with guys”.

              I would also make sure they aren’t currently a prostitute. Not exactly an example you want to set for a bunch of kids.

              • @andros_rex
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                181 year ago

                The former president of the United States is a convicted rapist who bragged about his dick size and paid a porn star thousands of dollars to have sex with him. That’s an example I wouldn’t want set for a bunch of kids, but it appears that’s just fine. An underpaid public servant working a side gig to make ends meet though…

                • bioemerl
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                  -111 year ago

                  Would you… Want Donald Trump to be your teacher?

                  If not, why bring it up. You aren’t actually supporting your point.

                  • @andros_rex
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                    61 year ago

                    Nah, I don’t want Donald Trump to be a teacher. Not because he’s had sex with porn stars, but because he appears to be illiterate, lacks empathy, and would probably die on the spot if some seventh graders made fun of his shitty toupee.

                    Just admit you hate women already lol. Be honest with yourself.

              • @QHC
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                121 year ago

                So you do that with every potential hire? What about military vets, should they be evaluated to make sure they aren’t encouraging kids to be killers?

                • bioemerl
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                  -111 year ago

                  What about military vets, should they be evaluated to make sure they aren’t encouraging kids to be killers?

                  Yes.

                  A former military vet in my school pulled a gun in a McDonald’s drive through once and got arrested.

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            1 year ago

            So, a medical professional who did sex work to pay for med school, right?

            I agree, people with those credentials would be ideal.

            e: oh wait, I ignored part of your comment.

            in a field that isn’t prone to abusive conditions.

            Yes, it’s been difficult for women in the medical field. Thanks for bringing attention to that.

      • @surewhynotlem
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        371 year ago

        Eh… do you hire the person with the degree or the one with ten years of industry experience?

        • bioemerl
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          -521 year ago

          The degree. We aren’t teaching kids how to be prostitutes.

          • @surewhynotlem
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            361 year ago

            It was a trick question. This lady had the degree AND the work experience. You just missed out on the perfect candidate because you’re biased.

            • bioemerl
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              -341 year ago

              The people who are actually there and know the situation more deeply than either of us seem to disagree.

              • @surewhynotlem
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                171 year ago

                They didn’t say that she was unqualified. They said eww yuck an escort. They clearly have the same bias as you do, but that doesn’t mean they made an intelligent hiring and firing decision.

              • @[email protected]
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                141 year ago

                The people who are there and know the situation can still be wrong. This is a thought terminating cliche.