Everyone knows the classics. Only use cash (eh). Wait 30 days before making a purchase to see if the impulse wears off. Track your expenses. Save X% of your paycheque. But what are some more interesting ones?

  • Botree
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    61 year ago

    Super untraditional ones:

    • Know that impulse buying is always an emotional transaction and has little to do with the target object itself. Get acquainted with your desires, meditate on them and go down the rabbit hole and trace them back to their roots.
    • Learn to love boredom and wean off chasing the next shiny object. Boredom is actually good for you.
    • Don’t buy into the grand idea of chasing. "You got to know what you want in life, they say. “Chase after your dreams,” they say. “Climb that ladder and get to the top,” they say. But it’s perfectly fine feeling contented with what you have and not wanting anything in particular. It’s OK to enjoy this moment and appreciate what you already have. The more you practice contentment and gratitude, the smaller the void you need to fill with external objects.
    • @pineapplefriedriceOP
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      21 year ago

      Boredom is one that I’m trying hard to embrace, because I became so aware of it after I did my “buy no new clothes” year. I’m all too aware that I have this cycle where I buy something thinking it’ll “stick”, tire of it, and then spend way too much time selling it since it’s often in near-new condition. At this point the difficulty is trying to differentiate between what’s an impulse buy and what I’ll keep for a long time. I have some things that I’ve had for close to 10 years, but at time of purchase I don’t know how I would have figured out whether I would get bored or whether it was a “keeper”. It’s a double edged sword because “only buy something when you need it” doesn’t work for clothes, because you’ll buy something you don’t truly like just because you need it asap and then you’ll hate it a few months later.

      Interesting video, but I’d also be interested to know more about how people actually implement that. “Be content with what you have” is a good principle, but hard to practice if you don’t build that skill.