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    10 months ago

    The 7 stages are:

    shock and denial. ------ You are here
    pain and guilt.
    anger and bargaining.
    depression.
    the upward turn.
    reconstruction and working through.
    acceptance and hope.
    
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        110 months ago

        I dunno if there’s anything to “self diagnosis chambers.” I can only speak to my experience.

        I’m an adult woman with late diagnosed ADHD. I became belligerent when diagnosed 4 years ago and refused to believe it (skipping ahead in the story) and now I hang out in ADHD spaces online because it’s always helpful to feel like you’re not alone. And because women tend to present with inattentive type, and largely went undiagnosed as children (since our suffering tends to be less disruptive and thus, easy to ignore).

        You read like a neurotypical coming into our space like you’re welcome and lecturing people who have a learning disability like anybody asked. Buzz off.

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            10 months ago

            ADHD is considered a disability (in the US) under the Americans with Disabilities Act. Which is why a person with an ADHD diagnosis is allowed to ask for reasonable accommodations.

            The more you know.

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                110 months ago

                How about instead of your obvious personal problems with this very real disability that I, and others, suffer from, why don’t you provide me with a scientific paper? A peer-reviewed study? Literally anything other than stating your feeling as fact?

                I tell ya what. Tell me what country you’re in and I’ll provide evidence that it’s considered a disability there.

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              110 months ago

              Bonus reply; I would know. I work for the Department of Developmental and Intellectual Disabilities caring for disabled adults. Knowing the ADA is actually my bread and butter.

              But go off on why it’s not a disability.