Yeah, and so I’m going to say very loudly as a woman, I’m friends with feminine guys, masculine guys, guys who are neither, and guys who are both. But what I’m not friends with is guys who can’t just fucking be themselves. We aren’t trying to feminize you unless you want help being more feminine, in which case yeah I’ll gladly give some eyeliner tips.

Masculine men with confidence and self esteem don’t need other men to be masculine for them. Ok some do, but that’s because that’s their type.

And if you’re still struggling with accepting how other men are, try therapy. It may help with whatever is causing you to push your expectations on strangers