I have had a tendency since my earliest days on social media where I will get halfway or more through a response, and end up just cancelling it. Sometimes I feel like I’m just being to over the top with snark or otherwise don’t want to be that kind of person, but a lot of the time I’ll decide I just really don’t care enough to finish it. Sometimes I just know it’ll be an argument and I know what the person is going to say, and just have no interest in continuing the discussion. I did it on Reddit, I did it on bulletin boards, I even did it in my teens and twenties on Usenet - and I’ll probably go on doing it for as long as I continue using this medium. I probably do it a bit more than half the time. I know that lemmy benefits from more content and I have had some great discussions, but sometimes it’s just not worth it for me.
How about you? Do you hit publish or cancel more often?
80% of my comments. I try to set a baseline and be kind/respectful (not that I am always successful) but I’m not particularly a kind or respectful person. A lot of my comments are bitter and bitchy and I end up deleting them. This place isn’t reddit and I’ll be damned if I participate in inflicting my negativity on this place.
I mean, backing down on your hostility is an effort to be respectful from your part. There’s plenty of people with a very negative inner monologue who just keep the negativity to themselves.