I cancelled to go to a thank you dinner that was organised for a thing I volunteer at. It was a few hours before and I was feeling really sick but up until that point I didn’t think it was that bad. Most people in the group chat said to feel better soon but one of the organisers posted a whole thing about taking responsibility and informing at least two days beforehand since they weren’t able to cancel for me with the restaurant last minute. I didn’t say anything but that was really hurtful. As if I were choosing to be sick to inconvenience them??