• @OneOrTheOtherDontAskMe
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      241 year ago

      Paying for sex, not sad, a little strange for me personally but not sad.

      Paying for affection/love, now that IS sad.

      • @[email protected]
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        -71 year ago

        If you can’t get sex from being a cool person and you have to pay for it, that’s sad. If you’re addicted to sex and pay for it because you need sex is even sadder.

        • @OneOrTheOtherDontAskMe
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          161 year ago

          People who pay for sex are not universally “not cool people” who can’t get it other ways. In my work with various at risk populations, from what I hear from sex workers, plenty of people pay for sex. Funny charismatic, rich, doesn’t matter, they’re just as likely to be Johns.

              • @[email protected]
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                -31 year ago

                That’s generally how it’s been done in America for hundreds of years. I think peasants in Europe did it like that even further back too. So how long until it can be considered “tradition”?

                • @andxz
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                  31 year ago

                  You don’t read much in the way of history, do you?

                  • @[email protected]
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                    Rich families married for power, peasants married for love. That’s pretty much how it’s always been. Lmao do you think people who worked on a lords farm was also worrying about who their daughter could marry to get a leg up? That’s ridiculous