• Mrkawfee
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    1 year ago

    How old are you if you don’t mind me asking?

        • triclops6@lemmy.ca
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          1 year ago

          I’m one right here. Tired? Sure, but they fill our lives. This was 100% the right decision for us, but everyone has their own set of goals

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        1 year ago

        perfectly ok in that range, it starts to get unsafe for the mother after 40 tho

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          1 year ago

          I don’t know about this commenter, but don’t forget that everyone is different.

          Hypothetically, you might be good having kids in you thirties, but one or both of them might have a condition or disability that gets worse with time.

          I know people in their early 20s with bad arthritis, and a lot of people want to be able to chase after and run around with their kids. Sometimes chronic pain/illness can remove that option.

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            1 year ago

            Oh for sure, I dont think everyone should or can be parents. Im just saying its not necessarily a death knell for parenthood in that age range