Mind sharing any piece of advice that you felt particularly useful? Thank you in advance. I’m so excited!

  • @NABDad
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    29 months ago

    That sounds like a story.

    • bluGill
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      39 months ago

      Fortunately not so far, and my youngest is almost old enough to bathe alone. I will miss that time

      • @NABDad
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        39 months ago

        The “lasts”

        The last time you do something with your kids. You almost never realize it when it’s happening.

        I first realized it with taking my daughter trick-or-treating. It was Halloween, and I was tired and dreading it. I headed home, got myself psyched up to take her out, and then when I got there she said she was going out with friends instead.

        I realized that the previous time was the last time and I was never going to do that again. Despite being exhausted from work, I was heartbroken that I had not focused well enough the previous time. It felt like I had just wasted the opportunity.

        She’s almost 21 now, and I’m still talking about it. So, you know it hit hard.

        • @lameidunnowatOP
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          29 months ago

          Thank you for sharing that story. I’ll try to remember this!