Really?! You’ve got no issues with him? Have you checked out his comment history? Maybe then you’d understand "orbituary"s reaction and all the downvotes “blackskinnedjew” is getting?
Blackskinnedjew is a member of this community who has been around for months. He’s entitled to his opinions and preferences. I may not agree with all of them or think they contain the most tact sometimes, but they contribute to the health of the LemmyNSFW.
Orbituary is someone who almost exclusively posts disparaging comments and puts down others in this community, as well as across other instances to be honest. They are not someone I would be sad if I never saw here again.
I appreciate your point. I wouldn’t have thought that “small boobs” is offensive or insensitive in the context of calling someone hot, but I realize I’m being swayed by what I find attractive versus by what others might feel when they hear the term, especially those with boobs. I think for me the lesson here is to err on the side of using safe and affirming language when describing culturally sensitive things. The things we learn on lemmynsfw :)
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Sometimes it’s better not to comment at all.
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Or, sometimes just dont comment.
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They’re just an angry foreveralone person based on their comment history
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I wasn’t talking about you, just to be clear! You do you friend, I’ve got no issues with you.
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Really?! You’ve got no issues with him? Have you checked out his comment history? Maybe then you’d understand "orbituary"s reaction and all the downvotes “blackskinnedjew” is getting?
Blackskinnedjew is a member of this community who has been around for months. He’s entitled to his opinions and preferences. I may not agree with all of them or think they contain the most tact sometimes, but they contribute to the health of the LemmyNSFW.
Orbituary is someone who almost exclusively posts disparaging comments and puts down others in this community, as well as across other instances to be honest. They are not someone I would be sad if I never saw here again.
I appreciate your point. I wouldn’t have thought that “small boobs” is offensive or insensitive in the context of calling someone hot, but I realize I’m being swayed by what I find attractive versus by what others might feel when they hear the term, especially those with boobs. I think for me the lesson here is to err on the side of using safe and affirming language when describing culturally sensitive things. The things we learn on lemmynsfw :)