I think you ought to try a therapist first. I don’t know your life but it kinda sounds like arousal might not be the root cause and something deeper is going on.
I dont really see this as something that major that would warrant professional help. I just dont feel sexual pleasure. There are other forms of pleasure. It’s not that much of a big deal for me.
Nothing wrong with asexuality if you arrive there by choice. I just think it’s worth troubleshooting that loss of pleasure a little bit if you would like to be able to feel it, because it’s pretty core to the human experience
I think you ought to try a therapist first. I don’t know your life but it kinda sounds like arousal might not be the root cause and something deeper is going on.
I dont really see this as something that major that would warrant professional help. I just dont feel sexual pleasure. There are other forms of pleasure. It’s not that much of a big deal for me.
Nothing wrong with asexuality if you arrive there by choice. I just think it’s worth troubleshooting that loss of pleasure a little bit if you would like to be able to feel it, because it’s pretty core to the human experience