• 𝓹𝓻𝓲𝓷𝓬𝓮𝓼𝓼
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        810 months ago

        it’s hard work! I struggle with it myself, everyday

        here’s a secret, though: you’re good, actually, even if you don’t Do Thing. I will believe this for you, even if your brain won’t

          • Gormadt
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            810 months ago

            It’s might sound kinda silly but one thing that helped me be kinder to myself was thinking about how I treat others

            I’d never treat people I cared about how I was treating myself so trying to be as kind to myself as I was to others was the goal I set for myself

            And overtime it became easier and easier to be kind to myself about my short comings

            Yeah I may fail to do all the tasks I set out for myself today but I did accomplish somethings

            It may even be little things some days and other days it’s not a whole lot at all

            But the kinder I was to myself the more I found myself able to do the things I set out to do

            I still stumble some days but that’s okay

              • Gormadt
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                110 months ago

                I only wish I had learned it earlier in life

                That would have helped me a lot over the years

                So the next best thing is to help other people with it so that they don’t have to suffer as long as I did

            • Uiop
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              210 months ago

              That reminds me of Rossmanns last video where he tells the story of how he discovered that he himself has also worth, especially compared to brokem apple computers.