Teachers describe a deterioration in behaviour and attitudes that has proved to be fertile terrain for misogynistic influencers

“As soon as I mention feminism, you can feel the shift in the room; they’re shuffling in their seats.” Mike Nicholson holds workshops with teenage boys about the challenges of impending manhood. Standing up for the sisterhood, it seems, is the last thing on their minds.

When Nicholson says he is a feminist himself, “I can see them look at me, like, ‘I used to like you.’”

Once Nicholson, whose programme is called Progressive Masculinity, unpacks the fact that feminism means equal rights and opportunities for women, many of the boys with whom he works are won over.

“A lot of it is bred from misunderstanding and how the word is smeared,” he says.

But he is battling against what he calls a “dominance-based model” of masculinity. “These old-fashioned, regressive ideas are having a renaissance, through your masculinity influencers – your grifters, like Andrew Tate.”

  • @Candelestine
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    510 months ago

    We had a bridge not too far away for our “real” fights. Strangely, the formality kept things more civil.

    Though there was one time a kid got literally thrown over the side of it. Water underneath so he was fine, but still was kinda crazy.

    • @betterdeadthanreddit
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      510 months ago

      If you have a designated fighting bridge, someone will get thrown off. It’s one of those universal rules of fighting bridges.