• @Cryophilia
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      311 months ago

      “Grooming” to me always implied the actions of an individual, with the intent of generating a sexual relationship with that one person. It’s got a level of intent that the lady at the grocery store calling me a “handsome young man” and then never seeing me again doesn’t have.

      • @Misconduct
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        211 months ago

        It doesn’t really matter what it is to you when it has a hard and established definition.

        • @Cryophilia
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          111 months ago

          Nothing you say matters to me though, and thanks to solipsism, that’s all that matters!

      • @LifeInMultipleChoice
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        11 months ago

        Well grooming doesn’t have to be an individual, and it doesn’t have to be sexual. Kids are groomed in school to go to college. The word means to train/prepare for. Training someone for something can be good thing or a bad thing. Or anything in between.

        • @Cryophilia
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          311 months ago

          Sure, but usually in these types of conversations people use “grooming” in a much more specific (and negative) connotation