• authenticity -> real and genuine

  • autonomy -> seperate individual (not enmeshed)

  • curiosity -> growth mindset and learning constantly

  • growth -> improving functioning and increased awareness of change and adapting to new circumstances

  • peace -> absence of conflict and abnegation of other people’s drama/entitlements

  • pleasure -> enjoying or benefitting from the actions I take and consequences of those I maintain relationships with

  • respect -> genuine care for recognizing and upholding other’s needs where it is safe and not incompatible with your own

  • reciprocity -> balanced approach to give/take and being mutually-attentive to signs of imbalance

  • safety -> avoiding things, people, places, situations that hurt you or cause you to be unable to enforce the protections you need to accomodate yourself in the context

  • stabillity -> expectation of consistency and balance and sustainabillity in one’s relationship with anything/anyone.

These are sort of a rough outline of mine, how about yours Lemmings? Mine aren’t exhaustive but these are the core simplest profile I could break down. Feel free to steal anything and add to your collection ;)

  • @cheese_greaterOP
    1•9 months ago

    What would you say the difference is between authenticity and integrity?

    Or do they more or less both boil down to honesty 🤔

    • @KrudlerEnglish
      2•9 months ago

      In a general sense (edit lack of) integrity involves compromising/adjusting your values for convenience, expedience, or personal gain.

      A very common shape this takes is people who have a standard of behavior for others in the world, but they somehow cannot apply that standard to themselves.