• @postmateDumbass
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    -110 months ago

    that is not a resonable test in this situation.

    Dont use ‘woman’ as an adjective. No need. Just use dainty/frail vs. burly.

    • @aidan
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      410 months ago

      Okay, but they did. I see how it sounds sexist, but how is it actually sexist? Dainty women do exist, and are on average, more dainty than dainty men.

      • @postmateDumbass
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        -110 months ago

        IMO introducing gender only to use traditional sex sterotypes to frame the discussion is sexist.

        • @aidan
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          110 months ago

          Well, using the stereotype is to reinforce their point. It’s a argumentative tactic. Like if someone said “eating greasy McDonald’s or whatever”, they could have just said “eating unhealthy food” but using specific imagery that plays into stereotypes gives a more emotional reaction.

          • @postmateDumbass
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            110 months ago

            And the sterotype they are playing into is sexist.

            • @aidan
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              110 months ago

              Maybe, I’m not sure where I fall on that. I view it basically the same as like the “fat American” stereotype- so is that xenophobic? Actually I would say that is worse, because being dainty isn’t necessarily a negative trait to many people.

              • @postmateDumbass
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                110 months ago

                Hmm trying to shore up a losing argument with a flanking maneuver, using the same trite tactic, to nations instead of gender.

                Going after redheads next?

                • @aidan
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                  110 months ago

                  It was an analogy? I think you misunderstood what I was saying. I wasn’t saying its not xenophobic, I was asking if you thought it was, and saying if you think it is then I agree it is consistent for you to then say that OP’s statement was sexist. Not every discussion is an argument, don’t be so defensive.