• Flying Squid
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    010 months ago

    I’m sorry you can’t believe that I taste something, but I still taste it whether you believe it or not.

    Do you think I’m lying? Why on Earth would I lie about this?

    • queermunist she/her
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      -510 months ago

      I think you’re mistaken because I was mistaken for most of my life. If you asked me five years ago I’d also say I disliked beans.

      • @[email protected]
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        310 months ago

        I hated steak well into my 20s because I’d inadvertently always eaten it well done and thought that’s just how it comes. Since discovering the rare end of the spectrum, I now love steak

      • Flying Squid
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        210 months ago

        I’m not going to try every variety of bean in the world just to find out there are a handful of beans other than some peas that I might possibly like. Just like I’m not going to try every variety of olive I like just to find out if there’s one I don’t hate.

        Why does this even matter to you? You eat what you like and I’ll eat what I like. Notice I haven’t even asked you what you eat and if you told me you didn’t like, for example, fish, I wouldn’t keep pressing you because there are lots of types of fish and you just haven’t tried the right fish and I thought I didn’t like fish so you’re mistaken for not liking fish. Would you enjoy it if I kept pressing you on it or do you think you might consider that rude?

        • queermunist she/her
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          10 months ago

          Again, olives are all the same species. It’s reasonable to not like olives. (I don’t much like them either, I prefer nut oils)

          Legumes are not all the same species, I think it’s reasonable to try other species.

          And I just think you might be missing out. It’s sad when people don’t try foods they might like because they think they don’t.

          • Flying Squid
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            -210 months ago

            Again, why does this matter to you? Why do you care so much about what a stranger chooses to do? Am I hurting anyone? Am I being highly immoral? What is the deal here?

            • queermunist she/her
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              010 months ago

              Well like I said, I thought I disliked beans most of my life. I was missing out. All those wasted years!

              I care about strangers. That’s all.

              • Flying Squid
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                -210 months ago

                I care about strangers. That’s all.

                Again- Am I hurting anyone? Am I doing anything immoral? Am I even risking my health?

                If you cared about me, maybe you’d have stopped haranguing me about this when I explained to you that I found it rude.

                • queermunist she/her
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                  010 months ago

                  I think you’re hurting yourself by depriving yourself of an opportunity for delicious food.

                  Also it’s an online conversation, you can disengage whenever you want. It’s not like I’m a door-to-door evangelist trying to preach the glory of beans.

                  • Flying Squid
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                    110 months ago

                    Hurting myself? Really? How does it hurt me?