@cheese_greater to Ask Lemmy • 1 year agoWhat's the smartest or most insightful thing you figured out as a kid that stays with you today?message-square115arrow-up1119arrow-down14
arrow-up1115arrow-down1message-squareWhat's the smartest or most insightful thing you figured out as a kid that stays with you today?@cheese_greater to Ask Lemmy • 1 year agomessage-square115
minus-squarechingaderalink15•1 year agoYou cannot change how someone feels about anything. You can try, but that’s only going to be some formula of what you did + plus their life experiences against how they feel about you andh ow they are feeling in the moment.
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink1•1 year agoAnd any time it appears you succeeded in changing how they feel about it, all you really did was convince them to hide their feelings.
You cannot change how someone feels about anything. You can try, but that’s only going to be some formula of what you did + plus their life experiences against how they feel about you andh ow they are feeling in the moment.
And any time it appears you succeeded in changing how they feel about it, all you really did was convince them to hide their feelings.