I really don’t understand why people can’t just say “no, I’m not feeling it”. This wishy washy waste of everyone’s time is just kinda annoying. If your friends get mad at you for not being available, you unequivocally need new friends. Nut up and say “no”, my guy. It’ll keep them from having to wonder about you the entire time.
solid advice. i see how others behave. i know what is expected. i do try to be mindful.
i have never forgotten the time 20 years ago when a good friend called me a flake. i actually had to lookup the meaning. over the next few days, i realized this is an accurate description… still not sure how i feel about that.
I really don’t understand why people can’t just say “no, I’m not feeling it”. This wishy washy waste of everyone’s time is just kinda annoying. If your friends get mad at you for not being available, you unequivocally need new friends. Nut up and say “no”, my guy. It’ll keep them from having to wonder about you the entire time.
solid advice. i see how others behave. i know what is expected. i do try to be mindful.
i have never forgotten the time 20 years ago when a good friend called me a flake. i actually had to lookup the meaning. over the next few days, i realized this is an accurate description… still not sure how i feel about that.
solid advice, tho.