Edit: LOL love the responses. You ain’t wrong…

Edit2: I posted this for giggles and have enjoyed it immensely. Thanks for the “parenting advice” (rolls eyes). My daughter is a shit show, but I wouldn’t trade her in for anything. She has three daughters, one of which is exactly like her and the two others are not. So…

  • @[email protected]
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    99 months ago

    Kids don’t do anything when they know someone else will fix it for them.

    And who exactly would be responsible for enabling that behavior?

    • @_sideffect
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      -59 months ago

      Nothing is enabled, if you want to shout at a kid non stop until they do something, THAT’S bad parenting.

        • @_sideffect
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          -59 months ago

          How would you solve it, because obviously the parent told their kid how to load a dishwasher if they’re at least putting stuff inside of it to begin with.

          • @[email protected]
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            49 months ago

            The same way I would teach an apprentice. Telling them what they got right, what they got wrong and how it was wrong, and then how to improve for a better result.

            What fucking dysfunctional system are you from that shouting is your go to?

            • @[email protected]
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              9 months ago

              What fucking dysfunctional system are you from that shouting is your go to?

              1. Task the kid with something you never taught them how to do

              2. Kid fails because they don’t know how to do the thing

              3. Shout at them because you don’t know other parenting methods

              4. Do it yourself

              5. Lessons successfully taught to your child: it’s normal to not teach your children, it’s okay to shout, you can’t do anything as well as your parents, you can use your inability to do things to force others to do them

              Hey, thank your parents next time you see them, I think they might’ve helped raise my ex girlfriend.

              • @[email protected]
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                -19 months ago

                Holy shit, I know this comment is likely to be modded away, but fuck you are delusional and making shit up and ignoring context.

                At NO POINT was it implied that the person didn’t have exposure or instruction.

                Go sit in a fucking corner and think about what you have fucking said.

                • @[email protected]
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                  29 months ago

                  They literally just answered your question. Rhetorical questions don’t really transfer well online.

                • @_sideffect
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                  -19 months ago

                  This place is turning into reddit VERY quickly; everyone jumps down others throats and then mob mentality kicks in.

                  Whatever, I’ll keep doing my part to add comments to posts to try to keep lemmy going either way 😊

            • @_sideffect
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              -19 months ago

              Lmao, ok dude, calm down