I just found out from my wife that if I continue to explore my non-binary identity outside of the confines of our house, she’s going to end up leaving me. Talk about a lose-lose scenario, fuck me. I really don’t want to hear the “you’re better off without her if she can’t be accepting” line of thinking. I get where you’d be going with that, but there’s a lot more going on beyond this wherein I need her.
What exactly do you mean by explore my non-binary identity?
In short, figuring out exactly how I’m most comfortable and confident in presenting myself.
Does that mean a change of your general appearance in public, or going out and meeting/flirting with new people that align with your non binary self
Appearance and how I dress is the entirety of it.