• @dustyData
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    103 months ago

    To break the cycle, if it’s obvious that neither person has the desire to commit, ask instead “well, what are our options?” Then start listing and working through what’s actually feasible and evaluate each one by one in no particular order. Humans are better at deciding how they feel about the one possibility than choosing one out of an seemingly infinite pool. Go with the first one that feels right and available.