• @Eheran
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    17 months ago

    Why do you love to hurt someone?

    • @[email protected]
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      47 months ago

      I’m a sub to my wife. When she hurts me, it gives her a satisfying sense of control. She’s very empathetic and can see my desire and pain, and me fighting through the pain to ask more.

      If I had to sum up the goal of BDSM: intimacy.

      Just as sharing a sexual experience is intimate, so is sharing a painful one.

      Of course, it’s not for everyone and it’s not universal.

    • @[email protected]OP
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      27 months ago

      I don’t. I have testicles. I’ve never been kicked in the balls. I want to know what being kicked in the balls that hard feels like. I want a woman to kick me in the balls that hard.

      • @[email protected]
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        37 months ago

        I mean, more power to you. As someone who took a line drive as an early teen, you probably don’t. It drags and lasts. Vomiting. Fucked. Can’t imagine it as an adult.

        • @[email protected]OP
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          7 months ago

          Fwiw: I’m imagining that if I ever do get kicked as hard as I would like to be, that being the most severe pain I’ve ever felt in my life, wouldn’t be at all out of the question.