But W.V. believes his daughter “is vulnerable and is not competent to make the decision to take her own life,” according to Feasby’s summary of the father’s position.

“He says that she is generally healthy and believes that her physical symptoms, to the extent that she has any, result from undiagnosed psychological conditions.”

Her only known diagnoses described in court earlier this month are autism and ADHD.

  • TimLovesTech (AuDHD)(he/him)
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    168 months ago

    She is 27 and still living at home where the article describes the dad as her caretaker. She has both an autism and ADHD diagnosis, but Dad thinks all her physical symptoms derive from her making them up, because he believes her to have an undiagnosed mental illness. I’m just one person that believes they are on the spectrum (with ADHD), but physical symptoms are real. Having a caretaker that refuses to believe you is not going to make for a great life. Especially depending on your symptoms, which again because she is 27 and still at home with a parental caretaker, I’m guessing that they are pretty involved.

    Also, these are often both genetic and passed down from a parent, so where is mom in this scenario? And might that also be playing a part in this?

    Anyhoo, my 2 cents.

    • @[email protected]
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      -198 months ago

      Yeah, you clearly understand the situation better than her fucking parents, from the shitty news stories.

      • TimLovesTech (AuDHD)(he/him)
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        98 months ago

        Not to completely shit on dad here either, it could well be that he is also on the spectrum and has lived in an environment that has instilled in him that you just ignore your needs because that makes you “normal”. That is why I was wondering about mom, as it is more than likely one of them is on the spectrum also and perhaps just never diagnosed and their child being diagnosed has unlocked some shit.

        Anyways I’m not a psychiatrist, just going through my own adult realization of things, and it’s not easy.