Either through memes or comments I keep seeing this sentiment pop-up from time to time. And I’m wondering what your (yes, you) consensus is on it.
I for one am too pessimistic to do anything with potential hints. Like even if there is a good chance I still just don’t want to risk it.
I’ve never had a man not pick up on my interest. I have been called brutally honest though, so maybe I’m a bit more direct than most. I have had the reverse problem where they think normal politeness is an invitation.