Either through memes or comments I keep seeing this sentiment pop-up from time to time. And I’m wondering what your (yes, you) consensus is on it.

I for one am too pessimistic to do anything with potential hints. Like even if there is a good chance I still just don’t want to risk it.

  • @Usernameblankface
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    369 months ago

    Men cannot afford to go through the process of trial and error to learn to follow hints. The risks from misreading the situation are far too high.

      • queermunist she/her
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        -59 months ago

        You misunderstand, he’s one of those guys that thinks he can accidentally rape someone by misreading social cues.