An old post from Caroline Ellison’s tumblr, since deleted.

  • @[email protected]
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    191 year ago

    Given that Ellison star-witnessed her ex into >200000 hours in the clink, I dread to think of what might happen to the person that marries her

    • David GerardM
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      361 year ago

      tired: polyamory on a basis of mutual love
      wired: neoreactionary harem with stack ranking

      • Phil
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        1311 months ago

        neoreactionary harem with stack ranking

        Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaagh.

      • @[email protected]
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        1311 months ago

        neoreactionary harem with stack ranking

        Please don’t remind me about my miserable time on dating apps.

            • @[email protected]M
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              1211 months ago

              oh fuck there’s definitely an urbit dating app isn’t there

              these weirdos always use their fucked up platforms to implement insular dating apps

              • @[email protected]
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                911 months ago

                JWZ once said that every platform eventually evolves into being able to send email and allowing its users to flirt and hook up. I dunno if Urbit has reached that stage.

            • @[email protected]
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              1111 months ago

              It is not? The search for ‘what are we actually going to use this for?’ continues.

            • David GerardM
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              911 months ago

              the only functionality is a text forum, so it almost certainly is, yeah

          • @[email protected]
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            811 months ago

            counterpoint: every form of communication can be made into a dating app if you’re horny enough

            • @[email protected]M
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              811 months ago

              making a bunch of typos because my hands are too sweaty to operate the Morse code paddle

              • David GerardM
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                811 months ago

                people would try to pick each other up over ham radio and have others break in to remind them that a large portion of the globe could hear them

                • @[email protected]M
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                  811 months ago

                  “radio amateurs are waiting on your call. come play my lord”

                  god I’m imagining how this all must have went given the personalities of some of the radio hams I’ve known

                  • @[email protected]
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                    511 months ago

                    I’ve actively stayed a pirate because I don’t want to deal with the majority of local HAMs (a necessity if I were to pursue a license locally)

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                11 months ago

                i’m 100% sure this happened but like, in interbellum

                also, there’s MGM for that, or iambic key if you’re a purist. or some digimodes can send plaintext which is basically primitive and slow chat

      • @captainlezbian
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        811 months ago

        That’s fair, us mutual love and respect polyamorists are old and boring.

        • David GerardM
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          811 months ago

          ya know how the failure mode of polyamory is when the cis straight guys try running things? yeah, welcome to rationalism

          • @captainlezbian
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            711 months ago

            Oh I’ve been to that event before. Angry lesbians came to the rescue then. Unfortunately I don’t think any of us want to deal with rationalists. Maybe they could get some angry bi ladies, I hear they do in a pinch.